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To become a Verified Source on TheRealHim.com, you must have had a direct, personal connection with the man you are reviewing. This includes dating, being in a committed relationship, or having significant firsthand interactions that offer genuine insight into his behavior and character. Only women with real, lived experiences are eligible to contribute reviews.

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Terms and Agreements for Review Submission

I understand that my personal identifiable information will remain confidential and will only be used for identity verification. It will never be shared with the public or sold to third parties.

I confirm I’ve had a direct, personal experience with the man I am reviewing, whether through dating, a relationship, or close observation over time.

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I agree not to include personally identifiable information (PII) about anyone other than the man I am reviewing, including full names, addresses, phone numbers, or social media handles of others.

I understand that I will not submit defamatory, malicious, or false content. My review will reflect my honest experience and should not be used as a platform for revenge or personal vendettas. I acknowledge that slander or defamation is strictly prohibited on TheRealHim.com.

I will provide an honest, factual, and respectful account of my experience, focusing on behavior patterns that could be helpful or harmful to others.

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REVIEW

Your details stay private

Any personal information you provide—like how you know him, the year you met, or how recent your experience was—will not be included in the public review.

YOUR Name *

Your name won’t be shared publicly.

First Name

Last Name

YOUR Age *

Your age should match your ID for verification purposes.

Email *

We’ll only use your email if we need to contact you about verification or follow up on your review.

Time to unmask the truth — let’s get into your review 💬

How Do you Know Him? *

Let us know your connection to him — whether you dated, almost dated, were long-time acquaintances, or are even related.

Romantically involved

Long time Acquaintances

Family Member

We Almost Dated

What year did you meet Him? *

This helps us organize reviews by timeline and spot any patterns in behavior. If you're unsure, a close estimate is fine.

Do you have any concerns about your safety or being identified by the person you're reviewing? *

Your response helps us take extra care when publishing your review. All reviews are moderated to prevent defamation and protect user anonymity.

What type of man is He? *

What best describes the man he is today?

Is he a public figure, celebrity, or influencer? *

Does he have a public platform (celebrity status, influencer, or large social media following)?

His Name *

Please enter his full first and last name. Double-check the spelling so we can match him correctly in our system and avoid confusion with someone else.

First Name

Last Name

Middle Name

This helps us accurately identify him, especially if he has a common first and last name. If you’re not sure, feel free to leave it blank.

Nickname/ Street names

Please share any nicknames or aliases he's used. These could be names friends, family, or others call him, or even ones he’s given himself. We want to know any names that might help others identify him!

What is his Date of Birth?

If you dont know skip this field.

YYYY

What is his Age?

How old did he say he was? Share the age he'd be today — or just guess if you're not sure.

Where does he currently reside? *

City and state, or just state is fine — feel free to share the last place you knew him to be.

Where is his hometown?

Based on what he told you, where does he say he’s originally from?

What is his occupation?

What did he say he does for a living? Job title, industry — whatever you know.

What is his Relationship Status? *

Just go with what you were led to believe or found out along the way.

Sexual Orientation *

Based on your understanding, how does he identify or present his sexual orientation? Just share what you were told or observed during your connection.

He's straight

He's Bisexual

He's Down low

He's in the closet

He has some questionable habits

He's hiding some down low secrets

I have no idea

How many kids do you believe he actually has *

To the best of your knowledge — based on what you were told or discovered.

How many children has he acknowledged or mentioned?

List the number of children he says he has. If you’re unsure, give your best guess.

History of Violence *

Has he ever been physically violent toward you or anyone else, based on what you know? This can include personal experiences, legal history, or reputation.

He has a history of violence with women

He has a history of violence with men

His anger issues can lead to violence with anyone

He's violent and uses weapons

His violence has put him in jail

He wouldnt hurt a fly

He gets mad but not violent

He makes threats but is all talk

Does he use drugs? *

To your knowledge, does he use drugs recreationally or habitually?

Not that I know of

Prescription Pills (unprescribed)

Cocaine

Meth

Fentanyl

Party Drugs

Yes but I'm not sure what type

He's as clean as a whistle

Does he drink alcohol? *

Does he drink occasionally, socially, or does it seem like he has a problem? Share what you’ve seen or been told.

Is he appropriate and trustworthy around children? *

Based on your experience, do you feel he’s safe, respectful, and appropriate around children? This helps paint a fuller picture of his character.

Does he have a Facebook account?

Please copy and paste the URL below

http://

Does he have a Tiktok account?

Please copy and paste the URL below

http://

Does he have an Instagram account?

Please copy and paste the URL below

http://

Does he have a Twitter/X account?

Please copy and paste the URL below

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Is he on any online dating sites? *

Not that I know of

Tinder

POF

Bumble

Upward

Hinge

OkCupid

Grindr

Raya

He's on several dating apps

What positive characteristics did you appreciate in him? *

What traits did he have that would be valuable to others?

None that I know of

Good Father

Respectful

Hardworking

Strong Morals

Integrity

Loyalty

Intelligent

Ambition

Empathy

Patience

Humility

Honesty

Kindness

Emotional Intelligence

Commitment

Generosity

Good Communication Skills

Self Awareness

Supportive

Were there any character flaws that impacted your relationship with him? *

Any Red Flags in His Personality?

Arrogance

Dishonesty

Selfish

Lazy

Cowardly

Jealous

Lack of Empathy

Disloyal

Aggressive

Avoids Commitment

Manipulative

Narcissistic

Disrespectful

Attention-seeking

Impatient

Self-Centered

Pessimistic

Irresponsible

Addiction

No Morals

Fraudulent

Argumentative

Rude

Bad Father

Inattentive

Immature

None that I know of

Recency of Experience *

Have you had direct contact or interaction with this man within the past 12 months?

Before You Write…

Feel free to share as much detail as you'd like about your experience. Please avoid including names of third parties, children, addresses, or any personal information that could identify anyone other than the man you're reviewing. Focus on what will help the next woman or reveal the version of him he's been hiding in dating — the goal is to unmask the truth, not to be malicious.

Leave Your Review *

What do you want the next woman who crosses paths with him to know? Any heads-ups, lessons, or sisterly advice? Share what you wish someone had told you. **All reviews are moderated to prevent defamation and protect user anonymity.

Could he change someday? *

In your honest opinion, do you believe this person is capable of personal growth or change?

Overall Rating *

How would you rate him overall? ⭐️ (1 star = major red flag, 5 stars = total gem 🌟)

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