TheRealHim.com is like Yelp or Google Reviews, but for dating. It’s a space where women can anonymously share honest reviews about the men they’ve interacted with—whether in a dating scenario, relationship, or just getting to know each other. Our platform allows women to review the character, behavior, and overall quality of men, empowering others with real, first-hand experiences. Our goal is to help women make informed decisions, navigate relationships with confidence, and build a community of support based on shared experiences. It’s not just about identifying red flags, but also recognizing green flags—qualities that show positive behaviors and traits in men.

All reviews on TheRealHim.com come from verified sources, ensuring that the insights you’re reading are based on real experiences. We prioritize privacy and verification to maintain the trust and integrity of the platform. Just like with Yelp or Google reviews, you have to trust that the reviewer is sharing an accurate account of their experience, but it's important to remember that no review can be trusted 100%. Each person’s perspective is unique, and we encourage users to read multiple reviews to get a well-rounded understanding.

Yes! We understand how important privacy is, which is why all reviews are submitted anonymously. As a verified member, your personal information remains confidential, so you can share your experiences with confidence and peace of mind. However, please remember that this is a public platform—never include personal information about third parties (other than the man being reviewed), minors, or anyone else involved in the experience. Avoid sharing sensitive details like addresses, phone numbers, or anything else that could put someone in danger. Your safety and the safety of others are our top priority.

Yes, the reviews on TheRealHim.com are written by real women who have had personal experiences with the men they’re writing about. We take care to verify all sources and ensure that the content shared is respectful and based on authentic experiences.

To become a verified source, simply read and agree to our terms for review submission, submit your review, and complete the verification process. Once verified, your review will be posted within 72 hours after being reviewed by our team. We encourage you to read our Platform Policies and become familiar with them prior to submitting a review, so you understand the guidelines and expectations for sharing your experiences. Once you've undergone this process, you won't need to verify your account again for future reviews.

We have a firm policy against false, harmful, or misleading content, including defamation. If a review is found to contain inaccurate or damaging information, it will be removed, and the member may be subject to account suspension. We encourage all users to share their experiences honestly and respectfully. For more details, please take a moment to read our Platform Policies regarding defamation and slander to familiarize yourself with our guidelines.

Yes! As a member, you can search unlimited reviews using a man’s name, location, or social media handle/URL, helping you find valuable insights and make more informed decisions. With a membership, you'll also unlock advanced search features for a more tailored experience. However, as we’re a new website and still building our database, the search function is not live yet, and memberships are not available at this time. The more you share the site and leave honest reviews, the faster we can grow and make the search feature available. You can create an account now and sign up to be notified by email once our search feature is live.

When sharing your experience, focus on providing valuable and honest information that will help others make informed decisions. Be mindful to avoid being petty—share what you know or have been led to believe to be true about the man, focusing on what could be harmful or helpful to the next woman. Highlighting behaviors like lying, gaslighting, or manipulation can be crucial, as identifying patterns in his actions can provide insight into his character. If you’ve experienced or witnessed any of these behaviors, sharing your story could open another woman’s eyes to what she might be going through too. Remember, most people have patterns and a history, and behaviors that are harmful or deceitful rarely happen just once.

We’re still building our database so membership access isn’t live yet! But you will still be able to browse limited reviews without a membership. In the future, to unlock all the features—like submitting unlimited reviews, accessing advanced search options, filtering, and receiving monthly email updates and newsletters—you’ll need to become a verified member.

Simply use our search feature to look up his name or location. If he’s been reviewed by a verified source, his listing will appear, giving you access to valuable insights shared by other women. However, the search function is not live yet. When it is, if you don’t see a review for him, you can be the first to leave one and help other women make informed decisions.